I’m thrilled to be moderating a panel at UniversalFanCon this year! Join us on the first day of the con, April 27th for…
YOU SEXY THING!
Panel Description: Sure geeks are universal…but so is romance. Many think that just because we’re nerds that we’re not interested in, or good at, all things smexy. But that’s just not true. After all, GEEK isn’t the only thing that’s universal. Sex is as universal as it gets. Every person on Earth got here through sex. And when it comes to CONSENSUAL good sex, there are more humans chasing it than running from it. Show me a person who denies this, and we’ll sell you a bridge in Greenland that’s lined with emeralds and your own personal crew waiting to sing ‘We’re off to see the wizard!’ in five-part harmony.
When we sit down to read we want to escape, yet have enough reality where we can see ourselves in the story. So why aren’t there extraordinary books out there starring the geek of your dreams? There are. And there are a lot of them. However, if you’re not sure where or how to come by these marvelous works of art, come to our panel and talk to the authors who create them. That’s right, we’ve got you.
This panel covers:
1) Worldbuilding (all genres, from contemporary to sci-fi to fantasy)
2) How kinky can geeks get? (BDSM romance)
3) Flipping for badass gods, faeries, angels, etc. (Fantasy romance)
4) Comic/Video game genres (wrapping games & romance together)
5) Da skilled lovers (writing scenes: realistic or ridiculous?)
6) Fang-banging, video gaming romance (speaks for itself, doesn’t it?)
7) Can we have it all? YES! (Multi-cultural, interracial, LGBT romance)
From books to the big screen, geeky sex equals…shiny! (Firefly/sci-fi romance)
The first in a new series from New York Times and USA Today bestselling author, T.J. Michaels
Solie Shaw is a brilliant self-made woman. After managing a corporation by day, at night, all she wants is to not be in charge. The last man she’d gifted her submissive heart to smashed it to smithereens and then did the mambo on top of the pieces. Now, along comes the chance to get exactly what she needs from a Dominant she trusts, heart and soul.
All Solie has to do…is choose.
Twilight Teahouse. Come choose something decadent from our menu…
Warning: This novella contains elements of culinary kink, second chance love and experiments with big thuddy paddle hands.
My favorite George Michael songs as a small tribute to a wonderful musician. I remember when Wham! came out with their first songs here in the U.S. I was in high school and didn’t miss a Friday night skating to this music. As a musician myself, it always hits home when we lose someone like George…or Prince, or David Bowie. *sigh* This has been an extraordinarily tough year.
UPDATE: Just learned that the links to the videos are not displaying correctly. Working on it…
I don’t usually share too much of my personal, day-to-day information online. Today I’m going to make an exception. Why? Because I think it’s important to remember that we’re all human, we all have ups and downs and we all have great and awful times.
My life isn’t much different than yours. I love reading. I love my family. I’m a total geek who loves food and playing with the grandbabies.
I’m also SO happy that 2016 is almost over!
I lost my job earlier this year. It was a horrible and completely unexpected situation. It was the first time in almost 20 years that I didn’t have a day job to fall back on and we almost lost everything. And I mean EVERYTHING. I was totally stressed and while I love writing, it doesn’t pay the bills, so a day job is important for my, and my family’s sanity.
I did a lot of talking to myself this year:
“Yo, T.J., don’t flip your wig woman. Things will work out!”
“Hey you, uh, I mean me, keep a positive outlook. The money will come. You will pay your mortgage. Everyone will eat and the lights will stay on, damn it!”
“Don’t worry about your family. They will leave the house and return again safely.”
“Have faith in humanity! Not everyone is shortsighted and full of hate.”
“Not all of your favorite musicians and actors are dying this year! Relax!”
And it went on and on. Needless to say, this year has sucked in so many ways that I’m seriously counting down the days to next year. Oh, and I’m not even going to get into the nutball politics this year. I’m glad to say that I didn’t think I’d be motivated to write a single thing, but that’s changing and the plot bunnies are hopping around like crazy *YAY!*
Also to celebrate the landing of a new day job, we are going to feast like there is no tomorrow. This is part of the plan. Ever had it? If so, share your favorite recipe for…PORCHETTA! Click the picture to hop to the recipe.
I’m not a big drinker but I do enjoy a glass of wine every now and then. And with the holidays coming up, we are always looking for a way to put a bit of a different spin on the usual culprits…such as red wine.
I saw this recipe a few days ago and I can’t get it out of my head. So I figured I’d share the love and drive you just as nuts as I am right now at wanting to try this delicious looking dessert. I would say I’m sorry…but I wouldn’t mean it! So let’s enjoy it together, shall we?
Cheesecake Bars with Wine Gelée
yield: 16 squares
prep time: 25 min cook time: 25 min total time: 7 hours (including chilling)
8 full sheets (140gr) graham cracker
4 tablespoons (55gr) unsalted butter, melted
1 tablespoon sugar
For cheesecake filling:
12oz (340gr) cream cheese, softened
¼ cup (60gr) plain Greek yogurt, at room temperature
1 cup (300gr) sweetened condensed milk
1 large egg, at room temperature
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
1/8 teaspoon salt
For wine topping:
1 envelope (8gr) unflavored gelatin
¾ cup (180ml) red wine (such as Cabernet Sauvignon)
2 tablespoons hot water
4 teaspoons sugar
Preheat the oven to 350°F (177°C). Line 8×8 square baking pan with aluminum foil, leaving two sides hanging over the edges.
In a food processor, pulse the graham crackers into fine crumbs. (If you don’t have a food processor, place the graham crackers in a ziplock bag and roll a rolling pin over the graham crackers.) Add sugar and melted butter and pulse until the crumbs are evenly moistened with butter. Transfer the mixture into the prepared baking pan. Evenly spread it, lightly pressing into the pan. Bake for 10 minutes and cool on wire rack.
In a large mixing bowl with whisk attachment, beat cream cheese, Greek yogurt and condensed milk until creamy, about 2 minutes.
Add the egg, flour, vanilla extract and salt. Continue to whisk until well combined, about 2 minutes.
Pour the cream cheese mixture over the crust. Bake it until the filling is set but not browned, for about 25 minutes. Cool the cheesecake to room temperature (about 2 hours), then refrigerate for at least 2 hours to chill.
To make the wine gelée, sprinkle the gelatin over ½ cup of wine and let it sit for 5 minutes.
Meanwhile, stir in the sugar in the hot water. Add the sugar water into the wine with gelatin. At this point, the mixture will be a little cloudy. Mix well until gelatin is completely melted. (If needed, microwave for 30 seconds to warm the mixture up. The mixture should become clear.) Add the remaining ¼ cup of wine and cool the mixture to room temperature, about 5 minutes. Gently pour the wine mixture using a back of the spoon over the cooled cheesecake. Refrigerate for at least 2 hours, or overnight, until the wine topping is set completely.
Cut into 16 squares (or even smaller, if desired), before serving.
Recipe is courtesy of Sweet & Savory by Shinee
There were so many ads on the original post, I could barely get to the recipe. So rather than taking you through that madness, I posted the details here. To see the original ad, uh I mean post, visit http://www.sweetandsavorybyshinee.com/cheesecake-bars-with-wine-gelee/
I’ve recently cut the cord, meaning I don’t have cable anymore, and it’s been a serious challenge to find a service that will allow me to watch premium (or premium according to my former cable provider – ugh) channels without paying an arm, a leg and half a liver.
So far, I’ve tried two providers – Sling TVand PlayStation Vue. This week I’ll talk about Sling TV. Next time, I’ll get into my experience with PlayStation Vue.
Sling TV – This service provider is actually owned by DISH Network, the satellite TV guys. You can get it as an ‘app’ if you have a TV with a Roku interface. I’m sure there are other ways to get it as well, but I have Roku, so that’s as far as I went. My thoughts on the app itself? Well, given I’ve been a professional in the ever-evolving world of tech for almost thirty (30) years, the interface and ‘feels’ of this service seem to be in its infancy, but the ‘bones’ are pretty solid so they can really expand the functionality of this app A LOT, if they choose to.
It’s SUPER CHEAP! If you’re used to paying over $100 a month for cable, minus a premium channel like HBO, then you’re going to love Sling TV. It’s about $25 a month and I get the channels I love, like Syfy (This is required so I can get my Killjoys fix!), BBC America, the History Channel, HGTV, etc. If you want HBO, it’s an additional $15, which still brings you in at well below that $100 cable bill.
It has a guide function that allows me to see what coming up on the channels I want to watch, as well as an On Air tab that allows me to see only what’s on right now.
Search function is standard and allows you to search for specific shows, as well as channels. I like the channel search because it shows me everything coming up on that channel along with any On Demand programs.
If you want to rent movies, you can do that as well. While you can opt in to purchase a premium channel, you don’t have to. If you want one movie rather than a whole month of HBO, you have that option.
Bandwidth choices! This is huge, especially if you have a crappy internet connection, like we do where I live. You can choose the maximum bandwidth that the app is allowed to use, from no limit (best quality) all the way down to .8 Mbps.
CUSTOMER SERVICE IS AWESOME! These people are super responsive, even on Twitter (@SlingAnswers). There is a real, warm-blooded dedicated staff and they will absolutely talk to you if you need help.
Where’d the menu go? – When you first sign in, you can add your favorite channels to the My TV area. Unfortunately, I have yet to figure out how to get this menu to reappear so I can add more channels to it. Help says ‘click the Add button’…but there isn’t one, so…yeah.
Favorites – The fav button doesn’t always show up where you expect it to. As an end user, what this really means is that the buttons for ‘MyTV’ and ‘Favorite’ look too much alike (both have a little heart at the center), so when you think you have one, you really may have the other (searched the Help Center but didn’t see any explanation). If you think you see Fav, and it’s really MyTV, when you click it will take you to the Favorite section under My TV…and since you didn’t actually ‘fav’ your show, of course it isn’t listed.
For shows that are truly marked as Favs, you sometimes get these weird gray boxes (see screenshot) and multiple iterations of your show. I have no idea why this is. For example, I have two grayed out boxes, one for Killjoys and one for Dark Matter. I also have two listing with the actual Killjoys and Dark Matter graphics. I can’t tell what’s what until I click on them. Turns out, one listing contains the entire series with all the episodes grouped together (you have to actually watch them in order for them to appear, so no DVR capabilities here), the other listing is a single episode. This single episode is also listed with the grouped series, so I have no idea why they’re here at all.
On Demand is limited, but they are working on adding more shows.
Occasionally the menus don’t align. For example, I selected a show called PlanetEarth and it had a StarTrek TNG description.
In the end, I selected Sling TV. The product is off to a good start and for what you get, the cost is super affordable. But honestly, what sold me is the amazing customer service! But I’ll tell you about that next time…
Knowing what you know now of writing, publishing, and putting your art out into the world, if you could go back to the day you sat down to start typing in your very first manuscript, what words would you offer to yourself? Words of encouragement? Words of advice? Caution against certain pitfalls? Would you change anything about how you got to where you are today?
The publishing community is so much bigger than it was before the self-publishing boom and it continues to grow exponentially every day. Unfortunately, it doesn’t come with a handbook or support group. #AmWriting is a collection of letters written by authors from all different corners of the publishing community. The letters provide words of encouragement or advice to those just starting out or those who have become discouraged in their art. At Pure Textuality PR, we believe in supporting each other as a community, and we felt this project would be a good way to bring writers together and maybe give some new artists just the right nudge to keep going.
100% of the net proceeds of #AmWriting will be donated to The Wayne Foundation, a charity dedicated to offering aid and services to young women victimized by illegal sexual exploitation and the sexual trafficking of minors. For more information about The Wayne Foundation, you can visit them on the web at http://waynefdn.org.
I see all these challenges, like the 30 Day Plank Challenge, 30 Day Squat Challenge, 30 Day Journal Challenge. 30 Day Whatever-The-Heck Challenge. How about a 30 Day No Bullshit Challenge? Well, it’s coming people.
A Certified Master Life Coach is going to take us through 30 days of true life-changing challenges to our own status quos. Want to kick dysfunction? Want to better your personal relationships? It doesn’t matter what kind, whether it’s friendship, marriage, family or whatever. She’s prepping…then we’re coming for you.
Stay tuned – start date will be announced soon. #30DayNoBS
Our coach’s name is Tamara Mays-Sheeley. Her area of expertise is polishing women into the gems that we are. If you want personalized instruction, you can enroll in her classes directly.
If you’re in the Savannah, GA area in August, drop into the Authors After Dark reader convention where we’ll both be signing!